Our Kitten Harasses Our Cat

Find five ways to occupy your new kitten while saving your older cat's sanity.

Obnoxious kitten? Try these tips.  Via  Pixabay
Obnoxious kitten? Try these tips. Via Pixabay


We got a 7-week-old female kitten about four weeks ago. Our resident male cat is 11 years old. The kitten chases the older cat throughout the day, biting his tail, legs, neck, wherever!  The older cat is “not a happy cat” right now. He hisses, howls and runs around the house as she chases him, although he is interested in what she is doing when she is not bothering him.

How do we stop this? Usually we grab the kitten and try to distract her with a toy or sometimes put her in her room. We both work so we imagine it goes on several times each day when we can’t intervene.


This problem commonly occurs when a new kitten is brought to a home where the resident cat is an older adult. The youngster needs someone to play with who is equal in energy and loves to play. Your kitten is full of play and kitten antics, a typical kitten with high-energy kitten needs. Older cats typically don’t appreciate the energetic antics of youngsters; they would rather sit and watch the world go from a comfortable spot next to the window.

Keep your Kitten Occupied

Consider bringing home another kitten for your youngster to play with. The one challenge to watch for when adopting another kitten is that both kittens may end up harassing the older cat in their efforts to play with him.

Play, Play, Play

Multiple play sessions every day help dissipate  kitten energy. It won’t be the whole solution, but it will give your older cat some down time away from the youngster’s whirlwind play attacks. Use a fishing pole toy, playing with your kitten in a way that imitates hunting. Encourage her to chase and attack the toy on the end of the pole. Toward the end of the play session slow the play down for a few minutes, pretending that the toy is tiring out or is wounded. Finally let your kitten catch the toy one last time and then immediately feed her something delicious. Typically, cats will eat, groom and then go to sleep, giving your older cat a breather.

Give Them Trees, Please

Have plenty of cat furniture for your kitten to climb and explore. The cat trees need to be tall, with sturdy bases, so that when she zooms around she doesn’t accidentally knock the trees over and potentially hurt herself.

Add Interactive Toys

Puzzle boxes, Turbo Scratchers and other toys with moveable parts to around engage your cat when you’re not around. The Nina Ottosson Plastic Dog Brick  is also popular with cats and kittens. Your kitten will also appreciate dental health chew toys to play with and chew on. Filling treat balls with her favorite treats will keep her busy as she works for her food. I recommend buying a couple of treat balls, so that your older cat isn’t left out of the fun.

Whatever toys you do buy for your cats, make sure that they are safe without parts that can be chewed off and swallowed. Additionally, toys with strings need to be put out of reach of the cats when you aren’t around to supervise because cats and kittens can hurt themselves with them.

Remember Your Resident Cat!

Your older cat needs equal quality time with you as well. Set aside time every day just for him, where you do activities with him that he enjoys. The activities might be simply sitting in your lap, being groomed or played with. Spending quality time with him every day will help him feel secure and reassure him of his place in the household.

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  • I had a similar problem with my 3 year old female, Peia and a two month old male, Leo. He tortured her once peaceful existence even though I did everything right when bringing him into our home.
    He was small and cuddly and very affectionate to me, and she saw that. She saw that I loved him too. No matter what he did to her, she would not hurt him even though she could have easily put her problem to an end. She would growl and hiss instead, but was obviously miserable.
    She is very independent, calm and not cuddly. She doesn’t like to be held or picked up. You might get two licks if you’re extra special.
    Then it dawned on me: I was very affectionate to him when introducing him to her so that she would know that I care for him, and not hurt him. It worked! She didn’t shred him to bits!
    But in my efforts, I never did the same for her. Leo never saw me pick her up or cuddle her. Most of mine and her interactions took place outdoors where he is not allowed. He had no idea how much I loved her and vice versa.

    To fix this, I immediately began to hold her, pet her affectionately while talking sweet to her. Even pointedly let him see her go into rooms that he is not allowed into.

    He gets it now. He has all of the love he can stand, but Peia will get love too. And even though it kills him that I will hold her sometimes and NOT him, he’s no longer sees her as a threat, and leaves her alone most of the time. Overall calm down period took a week, with workday separation.

    Bj November 22, 2016 1:35 am Reply

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